I think I’m a bit like my Granpa, in that my favourite time to keep a diary is when I’m travelling. We’re heading back to Nymboida, our 100 acre bush block (with tiny cabin) in Northern NSW for 3 months of writing, rest and what we fondly refer to as ‘bootcamp’. I can already feel my muscles stretching and strengthening… the toughening-back-up has begun!
It’s going to take a few years to get good at this too-ing and fro-ing, from one state to another, but each time we do it there will be less ‘stuff’ to pack and move. This is our second trek from Darwin to NSW. Last time we went, in September last year, we had to move out of our home of 25 years. We gave many of our possessions away, sold the lounge suite and the fridge because they were too big for our new gypsy lifestyle and packed a small load into a covered trailer to take with us. The rest went into storage.

I still laugh and shudder when I remember the drama’s we went through when we arrived at our new block in NSW. We’d damaged the driveway getting bogged on it 6 months earlier, a week before we decided to purchase it. Getting bogged was a blessing in disguise (one of many in my life) because it gave us time to fall in love with the land and the people. When we turned up with our dog and packed trailer in tow six months later, we discovered that the driveway-fix-it bloke hadn’t gotten round to our job yet. I may have partially cured my fear of heights by dangling off cliff edges, being rescued by helicopter from a waterfall ledge in Kakadu and paragliding off mountains in Austria, but roads with steep dropping edges and potholes still scare me. I held it all together until we arrived safely at the tiny house (its a long driveway), and then burst into tears of relief! Would you believe it still isn’t fixed?! We need a new driveway fix-it guy who has a wee bit less drama in his life.
We came back to Darwin in January, rented a unit for 6 months, and worked our butts off so we could afford to go back and do another three-month stint once the unit lease was up. After six months of soft living, all our hard-won Nymboida bootcamp-fitness had dissolved, and at the end of every day of packing, moving and cleaning, I could hardly walk, from physical pain and exhaustion! Now, after four days of travelling, I’m feeling strong and fit again; all the kinks have been stretched out!
And I LOVE the physical and psychological toughening up that happens from the harder living in Nymboida… I know we’re not there yet, but it starts with the packing and moving, and then steps up another couple of notches once we hit the road. The first day was a breeze, especially given we didn’t have the dog with us this time. He’s staying at his new ‘retirement home’, with my parents-in-law. He’ll be 13 soon, and life on the road, being lifted in and out of a 4WD multiple times a day, is a bit rough on an old dog.
FROM DARWIN TO RENNER SPRINGS
On the second day, we had our first drama, which I wrote about in a post on facebook:
Had lunch near The Highway Inn; my version of a burrito bowl with a Mediterranean twist… rice salad, black bean topping, coleslaw, pesto, olives, tomato, avocado, and sundried tomato. The photo happened after it was half eaten because hunger trumps photography hands down.
While waiting for everything to cool down I went flower hunting again. Found some beauties but didn’t get to photograph all of them because it was all hands on deck trouble-shooting our bone-dry
Sooo… we taped it all back together with electrical tape, filled the
Now we’re on the road again. So far so good, with the repair.”
The fix has held well, so far: no evidence of leaking. But our dramas had only just begun! I took my turn at driving once we got to the Highway Inn, and then we turned left, onto the Barkley Highway. I think we got about 40 minutes down the road when I started making longing noises about wildflowers. I was sure I could see an orange grevillea out there and it was driving me half mad not knowing. After dropping a few hints, Steve finally took his cue and suggested we stop so I could go flower hunting. And not a moment too soon! As soon as Steve opened his car door, he knew something was wrong. He’s the nose, after all, and the nose knows. No one else I know has such a well developed sense of smell… except maybe our son!
We set the alarm for 5.30am and went to sleep. Sort of. With a tyre lever instead of a teddy bear for protection. I’m actually surprised how well we slept, considering. We woke up a few minutes before the alarm went off, left the swag, tent and chairs set up to make it seem like someone had stayed with the trailer, and headed to Tennant. We spoke with one bloke on the phone who reckoned “Nah, no one in Tennant will come out to replace the bearings. You’ll have to get it towed in.” Which would cost $800.
After gathering what we needed to do a temporary patch job on the bearing, we called the guy we brought the trailer from. What a dude! I like him even better than the spare parts guy. Stephen told him what we needed and today he sent it all, free of charge, via Greyhound Freight. It won’t turn up until Wednesday morning, but I’m telling you, I won’t mind a few days rest in a hotel room. The sound of those massive road-trains whizzing past reminded me too much of my auditory nightmares as a teenager suffering from sleep paralysis! I’m very much looking forwards to a more restful sleep tonight and the hot shower I just had was heavenly.
After talking with our trailer bloke, we booked a hotel room and then drove the hour back out to where we left the trailer and half of our life. All the way there, we sang great songs that we improvised, like those songs you sing at football games in Ireland… something like “please, all our gear, still be there!!!” And wow, it worked (this is where I need an innocent-looking emoji face with raised eyebrows, inserted just here). All our gear was just where we left it. Praise be to the Lord, or whoever grants wishes requested via mad-sounding football-like songs. Or was it the flower fairies, my great-uncle’s leprechauns, or Granma Anne’s angels who kept us and our gear
It was bloody amazing watching Steve put that bearing together. He hadn’t done it in 30 years! And if I’ve ever done it I must have been too young to remember. All my childhood bush-mechanic skills are rusty. But at least getting bogged a gazillion times in the middle of
Steve packed the bearings and the space they were being loaded into with heaps of grease, pieced it altogether and then we replaced the wheel. We decided to steal the dust cap from the other wheel and put it on the damaged side. The good bit about this was that it gave us a change to check
After I made the grevillea flower essence, we drove back slowly, stopping every 15-30 minutes to check on the trailer tyres, and made it back to Tennant without any problems, and a few more flower friends (and photographs) up my sleeve. He’s a patient man, my Stephen. We’ll repair both bearings properly with the new parts on Wednesday, with our hotel kindly providing a working space for us to do this in. In the meantime, we’ll do some more diagnostics and have lots of mini-conferences together and with others, to make sure we’re well and truly ready and prepared for the next chapter in our latest scrumptious adventure.
Blessings and Love
Om